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Category: Lifestyle
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How I Thrive In Ghana ft Michelle Konadu x Villa Diaspora
There is more than one way to thrive in Ghana. I believe the mindset behind defining success and maneuvering reality is so important in developing the path that works for you. In this post, I introduce you to Michelle Konadu, founder of Villa Diaspora. We have an insightful discussion on her experience building Villa Diaspora in Accra, cultivating community in Ghana, and defining success. Have you heard of the “Republic Boys?” Do you know how to “face your front?” Do you know what success and family have in common in how to thrive in Ghana? We drop all the gems and spill some tea in this post.
Villa Diaspora is a co-living apartment and community space that provides a “soft-landing” to returnees, repatriates, and expats in Ghana. In this video, you also get to see an exclusive tour of Villa Diaspora. If you are looking to move and experience Ghana, you need to connect with Michelle.
I also asked Michelle what she appreciates about Ghana and what she needs Ghana to improve on. Here’s what she shared.
Things I appreciate about Ghana:
The culture
“I’m an Akan person. So, everything I thought I knew about Ghana was really just my parents’ village. But, living in Accra, it’s like a melting pot. It’s just that the pot itself is a Ga pot. Living here I’ve learned a lot about the Ga people. Our caretaker here is from the North but is not really from the North. You just learn so much about migration, culture, and people that are matrilineal versus patrilineal. Especially as a woman, I see our strength and the power we’ve always had. The woman with the baby on her back and the load on her head is self-sufficient. She is not a victim. She prioritizes. I’ve learned a lot about the women who came before me and the woman I am meant to be. We never lacked anything. We’ve been voting since voting started. We’ve owned property, sometimes even more than men. We’ve married multiple people. I love the culture.”

The pace
“I love the slower pace. I think people usually look at a slower pace as if people are slow or don’t know anything. But it’s the best thing you could do. I’ve been able to come back to my humanity. Being in Ghana keeps you on your toes. You never know when you are going to have light, water, or anything else. You might have it the majority of the time, but you’re always on your toes in case you don’t. But we don’t panic. Things happen and we sit back and say …hmmm… but it will solve itself. I think we are also great manifesters because we never speak negatively. We say “it shall be well” or “everything will be ok.” We then wait for it to be ok. I think that has a lot to do with why we are still here. Despite all that has transpired here, we are still here.”

It’s Ghana
“It’s got everything that you ever want. Whatever your lifestyle, you will find it here. If you want to be natural, you’ll find it here. If you want to be bougie, you’ll find it here like 10 times. It’s such a multifaceted place that no matter what you want in the place you can definitely find it, as long as you don’t limit yourself. Ghana will definitely not limit you.” (que…snapping fingers!)

Things I need Ghana to improve on:
The system
“One thing Ghanaians have been able to do is to find their place in the system. It would be great if the system did work. If we had the infrastructure everyone keeps talking about and complaining about. It would be great, but we found a way to fit ourselves into things. It would be great if we could utilize our energy in other ways and didn’t have to scheme.”

Year of Return / Beyond the Return
“The Year of Return was a great idea. One thing I had an issue with though was that all of the marketing and speeches and conferences and panels were done outside in the States or London or other places. The people here who you are sending people to come and meet have no idea about what’s going on and those people who do are like ‘we’re scamming to make some cash.’ So instead of being in a position where you are educated and also heart is softened and ready to embrace these people who are coming 400 years later…because Ghanaians, we like these things…long lost siblings and stuff like that. Hence ‘sankofa,’ to go back and get is not considered taboo. I think they could have done a much better job with that and we can still do a much better job than that. Educating people on the ground so it’s a better union. We can be better educated on the diaspora to not see them as money bags or strangers. That part breaks my heart because the faces are there…our noses are the same. It’s like Don Cheadle. If I draw African, it’s you I’m drawing. I think we can do a better job of embracing each other. Educating ourselves on who we are and where else we are in the world and how much we have been able to endure. There is more of us out there than everything leads us to believe.”

It was a pleasure sharing time and learning insight from Michelle. Isn’t Villa Diaspora beautiful? I love how she has decorated the place. Sitting outside was so peaceful. I’m excited to see how Phase 2 turns out. Building community is easier said than done, but when people invest their energy and resources to create a space to house community, it makes all the difference.
What do you think of our discussion and the tour? Are you coming to stay at Villa Diaspora? Share with me in the comments.
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My Fun Day in Accra: Dance + Paint +Journal with Roxanne at Eleven15
Let’s go outside and have fun. In this post, I take you with me to dance and paint with Roxanne at Elevent15 Restaurant / Lounge.
This event was hosted by Roxanne, who is the founder of Dance 4 Mental Health. She is a life coach who produces content to demystify mental health and hosts activities to uplift mental health. During this event, we did some dancing, journaling, and painting.
This was also my first time at Eleven15 Restaurant and Lounge. It is located in East Legon and is a really nice spot to enjoy the outdoors and colorful art. They also host different activities.
We started with a short Kizomba dance. I look forward to dancing more next time.

Part of the event included a writing exercise where we wrote about what pivotal moment has happened in our lives recently and what beliefs and consequences came out of that. We read each out loud anonymously.
Overall, the main feeling in the group was deep frustration. There has been a disruption in important parts of their lives within the past year and things are not looking up. It was beautiful to be part of this circle as we shared encouragement and insight.
This reminded me of how the heaviness we are carrying from last year has yet to be released. Rather, it’s being further compounded with the continued heaviness of this year.
For what it’s worth, to those who feel this way and are keeping it bottled up inside, I want you to know I feel it too. This time last year I was also frustrated and sad. Maybe it was a good thing I had to stay home. I cried a lot. But, as time passed, I felt like my tears were part of a transformation. Like, you know how a butterfly turns into a butterfly? It’s not a pleasant experience, but the destination is beautiful.
Just like the butterfly, no one can fix you or take action for you. I made a pivot, took action, and surrendered. Released my grip on control or what I thought was right. Fast forward now, I’m not crying as much and I’m balancing different frustrations. Life happens for you. These waves of feelings happen for you. The growth will happen for you if you take action and surrender. If you can do it alone, go for it. If you can’t, please reach out to the right people.
Take care of yourself. You are worthy.

Lastly, we painted a ballerina dancing. It was nice to see how we all customized our ballerinas at the end.
I enjoyed spending time outside and meeting a lovely group of new people.
Would you attend this type of event? What kind of activities would you like to see more of in Accra and Ghana? Share with me in the comments.
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Can I Make Money Move In Ghana
What does it take to make money move in Ghana? In this post, I share my experience discovering the challenges with moving money in and out of Ghana, the dynamics behind mobile money, and the challenges in finding investment options.
Let’s dig deeper into the reports I found. Like I said in the video, this experience lead me to do more research on what the digital financial services industry is doing in Ghana and Africa.
There is a lot of talk about digital financial inclusion in Africa. Half of the world’s mobile money transactions happen in Africa. Thus, financial tech is pushing to further develop this sector and formal banking still has room for improvement. According to the World Bank, in Africa, savings and credit are conducted through a semi-formal method with family and friends…not with a bank. Having mobile money be an option across all transactions may become a reality sooner than we think. Due to the pandemonium (in part), this demand pushed innovation into gear to expand mobile money access. According to the Africa Report, we are now in a new chapter for mobile money transactions in Africa where we might start to have “super apps” to pay for transportation, medical appointments, and other things all through mobile money. This is also why all tech eyes are on Africa to expand mobile money into savings and lending.
It is exciting to see how this industry continues to evolve. I do hope we truly fill the voids and implement solutions beyond the hype and buzz.
Have you had a similar challenge to what I discuss in the video? Did you find a solution? Share with me in the comments. Do you know other investment options in Ghana, beyond real estate and treasury bills? Share with me in the comments.
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How Ghana Handles Speech + Nudity With The Akuapem Poloo Case
Social media never runs out of opportunities to experience creativity, scandals, and thought-provoking conversations. I feel the recent Akuapem Poloo case in Ghana showcases all three. In this video, I recap on developments from the case and discuss how Ghana handles freedom of speech, nudity, and social media etiquette.
The Akuapem Poloo case is about Akuapem, a Ghanaian actress, being arrested and sentenced for 90 days in jail for posting an Instagram photo of herself nude with her son wearing underwear to celebrate his 7th birthday. Misunderstandings over artistic expression, publishing obscene materials, and domestic violence brought this case to court. I took this opportunity to dig deeper to learn and reflect on Ghana’s track record on freedom of speech, cultural norms surrounding nudity and women’s autonomy, and social media etiquette for the African market.
Let’s make sure we are all caught up with the facts of the case. In June of 2020, Akuapem Poloo, a Ghanaian actress, posted a photo on Instagram to celebrate her son’s 7th birthday. In the photo, she was naked, crouching sideways and posing in a way to not expose any explicit body parts. Her son was standing holding her hands wearing only underwear. The caption for the photo was the following:
“I’m naked in front of you because this is how naked I was giving birth to you. So in case you find me lying somewhere don’t pass by but see me as your Mom who brought you to life.”
Akuapem Poloo via InstagramThe complainant is the director of Child’s Rights International Ghana, Bright K. Appiah, who stated that her conduct undermines the privacy or likely detracts the dignity of the son. Below, he is interviewed explaining the NGO and the reason why he brought this case. (Note: if you could help me translate parts of the interview and summarize his response, please comment below. I’m still learning.)
She was arraigned in the Accra Circuit Court in November of 2020. Later in April 2021, she was charged and found guilty of publishing obscene materials, domestic violence, and undermining the privacy and integrity of another person. She was sentenced to 90 days in jail. Judge Christina Cann was quoted about the sentence that “it has become a worrying trend on Ghana’s social media indicating that this message should serve as an incentive to others.”
During this time, over 29,000 people signed a petition pleading with President Akufo-Addo to free Akuapem Poloo, which was signed and shared by Ghanaian celebrities, socialites, and fans.
On April 21st, the Accra High Court granted her 80,000 Ghc bail under the conditions that she reports to her case investigator every two weeks and the court registrar confiscates her passport. The case is now on appeal.
Later, on April 24th, Akuampem Poloo held a press conference in response to the case.
Freedom of Speech in Ghana
Like I said in my video, the first thing I thought of when I heard about this case was freedom of speech. So, I did some digging to learn about how Ghanaian law defines that right and how it has been implemented.
The 4th Republic of Ghana adopted a constitution that established the right to free speech in 1992. It states “all persons shall have the right to freedom of speech and expressions, which shall include freedom of the press and other media.” That constitution guarantees that the press and every individual in Ghana has the right to say anything they want, whenever they want and wherever they want. The only time this right can be revoked is when its use by an individual threatens the very life of another individual.
Ghana has been listed as the number one nation in Africa on the World Press Freedom Index. However, discussions of freedom of the press in Ghana question this status with the murder of Ahmed Suale, the investigative reporter most known for his film exposing corruption in Ghanaian football, and other incidents of confiscating equipment and intimidating journalists. Concerns have also been raised about the source of voices in media. Reportedly, in 2014, Ghana’s mainstream media is dominated by men, taking up 83%. Apparently, these men are exclusively part of the political, elite, and/or capitalist class. This leaves no voice for the rest of Ghana’s population, including women, disabled, and those who live outside of Accra.
Now, remember, freedom of speech did not come up in the Akuapem Poloo case. I still wanted to see if there were any previous cases in Ghana about posting on social media. I found one recent case. In 2020, Bless Amedegbe posted a video claiming the stay at home initiative was a hoax for the government to install 5G cables to kill Ghanaians. The video went viral and he was arrested. He was arraigned and remanded in court under the charge of false communication, assault on a public officer, contravening electronic communication act, criminal and other offenses act. He later stated the video was an act for kids. This case is a better example of how Ghana law is implemented to deal with content posted online that could incite harmful behavior.
Since the Akuapem Poloo case is focused more on the privacy and dignity of the child, I was expecting to find evidence of a child psychologist’s examination or statement. I have yet to find evidence of that. I also wondered if the NGO that is pressing charges has the same authority similar to Child Protective Services. Like, who is representing and advocating for the well-being and protection of the child in this case? These are questions I am still looking for answers for.
Nudity and Women’s Autonomy in Ghana
Among public discussion about this trendy topic, the concept of nudity and women’s autonomy over their bodies in Ghana came up. This extended to discussions about women’s rights in Ghana. Like I said in the video, I feel the attitude surrounding nudity in Ghana, especially of women, is nuanced. Generally speaking, in Ghana, everyone is expected to be fully clothed, regardless of religion or gender. Thus, using nudity for artistic expression attracts different responses. There are traditional wood carvings and paintings of naked women here. There are modern paintings of naked women here. There is a portion of social media content here dedicated to Ghana’s version of IG models, sometimes almost naked. As far as I know, none of this has been confiscated as obscene materials.
So, when it comes to a woman, in real life, choosing to be “going out more and dressing less,” or post her own photo naked, she is not expecting to be arrested. There is no clothing police in Ghana. Rather, her reputation is up for grabs. Some people will place her in a box that determines how much respect she deserves. Again, I’m not here to say if this is right or wrong. I’m taking this opportunity to learn more about Ghana through how its people think, interact, and respond.
The judge in the Akuapem Poloo case was quoted in saying that she is charging this case to make it an example and deterrent against all the inappropriate things that are being posted on social media in Ghana. Compared to all the other things happening in Ghana, some can’t help but feel this might be hypocritical, looking at other incidents of perversion and abuse that were not given the same treatment. I feel the discussion about nudity in Ghana must also include the fact that our concept of nudity is heavily influenced by the hypocritical, puritanical missionaries who came to Ghana. Prior to colonization, Africans were not walking around butt-naked. They dressed in a way that was appropriate for the climate and environment they lived in. They also had organized a society that was appropriate for their livelihood. So, in this case, it makes some sense to focus on the child instead of whether a woman can choose to showcase her nudity. But, we should also recognize that we are partly looking at this through the Western lens, which hyper-sexualizes everything, especially when it comes to women. If this is supposed to be used an example to determine how the younger generations coming up think about this, wagging our finger and saying “no” is not the best method. The youth have access to information and are aware of the hypocrisies in every aspect of our society. Maybe, to respect their curiosity and intelligence, it is time to use honesty instead of status-quo authority.
Social Media Etiquette in the African Market
Finally, I feel this case can be added to the growing list of examples of how the African market is defining it’s own social media etiquette. This reminded me of the case in Egypt where five women were arrested for violating public morals by posting videos on TIkTok. As well as the cases of social media and internet connection being shut down or censored deliberately during protests in Nigeria and Senegal. Also the cases of Uganda, Kenya, and Tanzania placing a tax on social media and internet contributors. Technology continues to carry Africa through this turbo-jet leap-frog jump in development. Thus, everybody is constantly running to catch up. African governments, in different ways, are evolving and stumbling in how they maneuver how important the internet space is for its people and the desire to maintain and preserve its culture and history, as well as protect it’s people from fake (or accountable) information.
This is a really fascinating time to be alive as we observe how this evolves. On the one hand, we do not want to create an environment that holds social media and the internet hostage for the sake of censorship. The internet has created somewhat of a level playing field for African innovators, creatives, and youth. Africa is being seen and experienced differently thanks to these Africans sharing there story, talent, and pride online. Africans are gaining access to new avenues to earn revenue and change their livelihood thanks to their presence online. Censorship, restrictions, and taxation on the internet space in Africa should not be taken lightly.
On the other hand, I understand the desire to attempt to preserve what is “truly African.” Just because we can see online how the rest of the world lives does not mean we should completely copy that here. However, we can protect our culture and history while also allowing the definition of “truly African” to evolve with the current times. Questioning what we have always done or thought does not automatically cast it as wrong or negative. Rather, it means we are evolving and hopefully growing in a better direction. Multiple truths can exist and be respected in the same space.
Regarding the Akuapem Poloo case, what does this mean for social media public figures in Ghana? Should they censor themselves? Should the money they earn be determined by the representation of morals on their online feed? This is where understanding what media we consume comes into play. Social media public figures can be both praised as a hero and dragged as a scapegoat. As much as we focus on them and what is being posted, we should also seek to better understand how to decipher information and take care of each other out here.
Overall, I enjoyed digging deeper into this discussion. What do you think about this case and the topics brought up? Do you have anything to add? Share with me in the comments. Again, I feel it would be inappropriate of me to state whether or not this case or the way it was handled was right or wrong. I am using this opportunity to continue learning about Ghana through how its people think, interact, and respond.
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My First Time At Abyssinia Ethiopian Restaurant In Accra Ghana
If you are looking for a new spot for food and experience in Accra, you need to check out Abyssinia Ethiopian Restaurant. Located in Cantonments, this restaurant provides an authentic Ethiopian food experience. From the decor, customer service, and menu, this place is really cool. In this video, I take you with me to order food, see their coffee ceremony, and eat at home.
Another cool thing about the ambience at Abyssinia Ethiopian Restaurant is that you can stay as long as you want. I did not feel as if I was being rushed out or hounded to order something else. Instead, you are invited to try a sample of their honey wine, bread, and some appetizers while you wait. You are welcomed to chat and relax for as long as you like. It almost feels like you are sitting in your own courtyard at home.


Do note that at the time of making this video, the manager was Daniel. I have subsequently been informed that he is no longer the manager. So, do not go there and ask for him.
Also note that this post is not endorsed. I ordered my own food and enjoyed my experience so much that I had to share it with you.


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