Author: Dagny Zenovia

  • What Are Blogs With Benefits

    What Are Blogs With Benefits

    We are about our business. Blogging is a business. So, let’s chat. If you have been following my blogging tips or Pinterest blog ideas board, you know I have been working to create an enjoyable and substantial experience here. One of the things I enjoy about blogging is the endless possibilities it can branch out to. From content series, collaborations, and expansions, there is always some experiment to tinker with and share. For example, I have been pushing myself to incorporate more visuals in all of my posts and I am enjoying the challenge of thinking outside of the box when I write.

    With that being said, as lovely as all of this content is, we all would like to be paid for our brilliance. Understandable. As the blogosphere has evolved over the past few years, I have noticed a trend for uniform monetization. Advertisements, affiliate programs, and sponsored posts are level 1 and webinars, e-courses, and e-books are level 2. Additionally, if you are not interested in being a life coach, blog coach, or some coach, you can sell mugs or planners with cute quotes. Now, I salute all the bloggers out there who are providing these services or learning how to provide these services. You are changing the face of entrepreneurship and dissolving barriers.

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    There are a few things I am not too keen about with this monetization trend. I feel like some of us have lost sight of the bigger picture. There are too many empty blog posts being written today. Must every post lead to a semi-sales pitch for a newsletter? Must all readers be lured as aimless consumers? Must all of our social media accounts be engaged robots? I think we need to create a balance.

    As big as the web is, it has become saturated. As content creators, we are always thinking of the best way to share our work to reach the biggest audience. Even with the automated services, pre-scheduling strategies, and hashtag practices, are we willing to sacrifice our substance?

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    I do not have advertisements on my site (except for the little ones WordPress keeps to persuade me to upgrade to premium). The links in my life or style posts are not affiliated. I genuinely share other products or content because I think it is cool and figure you might like it too. My preference in monetizing, which might be influenced by my experience as a freelance journalist, is based on content and community. I prefer getting paid to produce work that is authentic to enhance my community. A digital influencer should not only direct you towards what to buy. The purpose behind our gifts stretches beyond that. The challenge is recognizing that value.

    Again, blogging is a business. I am excited to see all the innovation growing from it. Maybe we can also re-define what kind of business it is.

    What do you think about monetizing blogs? Do you treat your blog as a business? How do you balance the value of your content with the value of your profit? Let me know in the comments below.

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  • Tea and Vinyl

    Tea and Vinyl

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    This outfit has a modern and retro feel that is appropriate for work, lunch or tea with friends or co-workers, or a fancy visit to a bookstore. This is one of my favorite thrifted blouses because the colorful pattern balances the full button-up. It can be dressed chic or chill.

    Wearing: Thrifted blouse, H&M blazer, J. Crew skirt, DSW heels

    I am continuing to experiment with my photography. I found a wholesale fabric store and bought some colors to use as a backdrop. I like how it adds to the portraits. Now I need to master the right angle for my camera and this stool.

  • Why I Want To Restore Vulnerability

    Why I Want To Restore Vulnerability

    We have grown to see vulnerability as a weakness. It makes us cry. It makes us doubt our worth. It embellishes past hurt.

    We see strength in facing our fears. Push beyond our doubts even if we are limping. Sacrifice in spite of the pain.

    I did that. I’ve been doing that. As I continued to limp up that mountain of disappointment, the clouds grew thicker and the walls around my heart grew taller. I was not carrying baggage. Life is too short to hold grudges. But you cannot ignore scars that refuse to heal.

    Thus, my inner ninja successfully keeps everyone at a safe distance. The walls around my heart turn into steel and the sparkle of laughter behind my eyes fade. I feel tired all the time. What is the point? A question that lurks in every corner of my mind.

    What’s the point of striving with no recognition?

    What’s the point of dreaming with so many people suffering?

    What’s the point of giving with no reciprocation?

    What’s the point of feeling with so little meaning?

    I have grown to see vulnerability as healing. It will take time to dismantle the barrier I built and it is a constant inner-battle to keep the clouds away. Being vulnerable does not only pertain to emotions. I want to restore being open to the people, experiences, and good that I have earned. That mountain of disappointments I referred to earlier could be a simple hiccup depending on your perspective. I have the power to choose that perspective.

    There is a lot of literature, songs, programs, etc about being happy. It is a pretty lucrative business. Why do you think that is the case? We are all searching for answers we believe we don’t have. Yes, I know I am the only one responsible for my happiness…but I also need a downloadable worksheet, an Instagram challenge to follow, and a periscope series to tune in. Sound familiar? We do not give ourselves enough credit. We are too preoccupied ignoring the answers within.

    I want to restore my vulnerability to enhance my existence. For the past two weeks I have consciously altered my daily routine and habits to continue this process and I can already feel the difference. It is not perfect, but I do feel better. Here is what I am doing:

    1. Set my intentions in the morning: I have been doing this for a while, but now I am really concentrating to clear and cleanse my mind. I am more specific with what I want and what I am giving thanks for.
    2. Focus on the good in others: We all find certain things irritating and have our list of pet peeves. Don’t let that blur your vision. Different people are put in our lives for different reasons. Most of the time it is for us to learn a lesson to challenge or enhance our lives.
    3. Share your gifts: This also makes me feel vulnerable. My gifts are a part of me, so sharing them is special. Once it is out there, it leave you open to all reactions positive and negative. I have had my fair share of discouraging remarks in response to my gifts and at times it made me hide them. Your gifts include your work, personality, skills, and presence. You cannot fulfill your purpose if you do not share your gifts. Focus on the positive impact your gifts make on others.

    There are also a number of bloggers and writers I turn to for encouragement and inspiration with this process. Regardless of what stage I am going through, they always have something that resonates exactly with what I am feeling.

    Tyece Wilkins – Her posts are witty and insightful that encourage you to be unapologetically authentic.

    GG Renee – Her posts and newsletter explores the many layers of being a soulful woman and make you think and reflect on what you can do better.

    Jen Carrington – Her weekly newsletter as a creative mentor are motivating and insightful.

    Amber Janae – Her posts reflect on self-love and life balance with practical experiences and encouragement.

    I hope you found this helpful. It was not easy writing this, but I feel better knowing that what I am doing is working and that this might help someone feeling the same way. What are you doing to restore your vulnerability? Let me know in the comments below.

  • My Style + My City: Houston

    My Style + My City: Houston

    Style is not just about clothing and trends. It is a form of self-expression influenced by many factors…some we might not be aware of. For instance, how does your location affect your style? I am not only talking about what you pack for a trip. The city you live in holds so many nuances to inspire your style. Today I am sharing with you how my current city, Houston, influences my style. This is part of a collaboration with a fabulous group of bloggers. Make sure you read to the end to view their style and enter our giveaway.

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    I like to view my style as a medium through which I exercise and enhance my creativity. It started as a hobby and evolved into a signature persona. It is a mixture of 1950s classics, 1970s attitude, and futuristic sparks. It is a blend of chic, afrocentric, and retro. I have been told my style resembles Janelle Monae and Solange. They both are on my list of inspirations, along with Audrey Hepburn, Esther Quek, Lena Horne, Miranda Priestly, Diana Ross, and many others.

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    Houston is a big city. The 4th largest in the nation to be exact. Just like preparing for a trip, the weather and mode of transportation are the two main factors in planning your outfits. In Houston, the weather likes to play games. In one day we can go from a thunderstorm to sunny and clear to dry and windy. Next we can go for a week or two with beautiful spring or fall weather. Most people drive everywhere and the only time spent outside is intentional. Thus, fashionista’s in Houston have a keen eye in creating outfits that work with shifting temperatures and the need for comfort.

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    Living in Houston has added another dimension to my wardrobe by helping me feel comfortable in casual clothes. I know that sounds weird, but hear me out. In high school I repeatedly wore graphic tees, jeans, and fake converse. When I left for college, and left Texas, I wanted that next chapter to not be high school part 2. That included changing my wardrobe. I grew to prefer dressing up and got so good at it that I could put together stylish outfits everyday without skipping a beat. This also meant that the casual section of my closet faded away.

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    I think part of being a successful fashionista is being open to what new places can offer you. There is a time and place for everything. Looking like a futuristic Mary Poppins does not work everywhere, but I think it is always appreciated at special occasions (right?). This does not mean you should try to blend in. On the contrary, you should try to have fun. Style in Houston is unique. There is no one-size-fits-all uniform to be considered stylish. I have seen a range of fabulous looks from cowboy boots to grunge jackets to dapper suits to urban chic to thrift elegance. There is room to create your own niche. Some trends I am looking forward to in Houston for the Spring include: Spanish floral patterns and light weight denim.

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    Since this is my first post for the new year, we must take a moment to claim it. My intention for 2016 is to restore. I feel like I have paid my dues: unfair, just, and self-imposed. I want to be open to the happiness I have earned. I will share more on how this pertains to my personal life in a later post. For my blog life, I am cheering for more inspiration, collaborations, and fun in 2016. What are your intentions for 2016? Let me know in the comments below.

    Wearing: Thrifted scarf, The Limited sweater, New York & Company skirt, DSW purse, DSW shoes, Girl Talk watch, Zig Zag ring

    Photos by Tiffany Couture Photography

    Remember that collaboration I told you about at the beginning of this post? Well, “My Style + My City” is a collaboration I created to meet new bloggers and showcase others work. I wanted to see different interpretations of style from around the world. Here are the fabulous bloggers who participated. Make sure to check out their blogs and show them some love.

    Giveaway (closed)

    As a token of our appreciation and an effort to encourage you to achieve your best in 2016, we are giving one lucky reader a 2016 Erin Condren Life Planner. Click here to enter. Good luck!

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    Source: erincondren.com
  • Soul Green

    Soul Green

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    The Limited Sweater | Kaela Kay Skirt | Vintage Belt

  • Tux Pattern

    Tux Pattern

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    ASOS Blazer | H&M Dress | Burlington Heels